It's no secret by now that the infamous "friends zone" exists. The secret is out of the bag -- it is practically scientifically proven that women tend to group men into two different categories. "Potential lovers", and "friends." What I want to teach you today is how to avoid the friends zone from the very beginning, and make sure that the girl you have your eye on considers you a romantic option from the get go.
An important aspect to all of this that's important to understand is the fact that first impressions are SUPER important. In fact, with women, I'm going to stretch that age-old expression a little further, and say that first impressions are EVERYTHING.
That's right, guys. That's the bad news. If you're already in the "friends zone", there it's usually very hard to "bounce back" and get out of the friends zone. Not impossible, but difficult. Therefore, it is a much more productive use of energy to simply avoid finding yourself in the "let's just be friends" category to begin with!
If you've read any of my advice in the past, you already know that I don't advise coming on too strong with women. Especially in the beginning. Women are courted by men (directly and indirectly) literally all the time, so you need to "stand out." You need to be an interesting, juicy challenge. But this is exactly the area where most men fail and wind up in the friends zone by the end of the first "date."
The best way that I can help you master this is to let you in on a little secret. Women are highly perceptual creatures. They are able to pick up on even the most subtle clues in your body language and the way you carry yourself. They're practically PSYCHIC!
What this means is that it isn't really worth your time to try and "fool" women into thinking that you're not interested in them romantically at all. Doing this will only backfire; women naturally want to "follow" your lead. So it is actually often the man who puts HIMSELF in the dreaded friends zone early on by hiding his interest for a woman completely!
So what's the right way to handle it, then? You don't want to come off too strong (afterall, you must present yourself as a challenge and a catch!) but you don't want to be too "friendly." Pay close attention, because I'm about to share the EXACT mindset that you need to have when meeting a woman for her to become madly interested in you.
'I am the prize. You are cute, and I might be interested in you; but I'm not all that sure about you yet. I think I'm going to have some fun with you and tease you for a while to check out your personality. If I like you, then I'm going to take things to the next level.'
Do you understand the POWER of that mindset? If that's the frame you are coming from, you become a romantic challenge to a woman. And THAT is what they really want. It's what they read about in their romance novels and fantasize about while planning out their perfect man.
You can be that man! Take it from me -- it feels GREAT to be the guy that all the girls giggle about and just can't get out of their minds. It feels GREAT to have a whole stable full of interested women; to be in a situation where you actually have to CHOOSE between your girls for a date.
And then if you want to take it to the next level, you can do so and have a relationship. If you just want to be friends, you can make that happen too; and it's all on your terms.
The only thing holding you back from this reality is knowing how to flirt well and build attraction in a woman. I'll teach you how to do that.
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Together, we can avoid the friends zone for good!
