So, you want to know how to ask a girl out on a date, and you don’t quite know how. Don’t worry, because you don’t have to be a modern Casanova to pull this off – but if you follow my simple advice, you will have so many dates that you won’t be able to keep your schedule clear for the next one. What you are about to read is information that most men will never know, instantly giving you an unfair advantage.
Step 1: Master Your Inner Game. The first thing to understand is that you have to feel confident in your approach. If you are not calm, relaxed, and positive when you go to ask the girl out, you will freak her out. Women pick up on the vibe and signals that other people are sending much more than we men do. If you come across as scared or nervous, it will make her scared and nervous as well, and things will crash and burn before they begin.
If you don’t feel that you have a lot to offer a woman, then you will naturally not feel confident. That’s okay, and can be overcome – believe me. I have personally coached the most ugly, broke, and dateless ‘losers’ and taught them in a days time how to approach random women in public, get their phone numbers, and set up a date right there and then. I am going to share some tips with you that will make sure that you get that date.
The key to overcoming this obstacle if you lack confidence at first is to simply ‘fake it until you make it.’ Make sure that you approach or talk to the girl when you are feeling positive and particularly excited. Enthusiasm is infectious. If you are not comfortable in your own skin yet, something that works very well is to picture your favorite character from a movie that does well with women. How would he hold himself, what might he say, and how would he feel when approaching a woman?
Once you’ve approached women successfully, it will all fall into place. Experience breeds confidence, and you won’t have to “fake” confidence for long. Soon you will be feeling like a ladies man from the inside out.
At the end of the article I will tell you about a resource you can use to find examples of ways to ask women out on dates.
Step 2: Set Yourself Apart from Other Guys. The fact of the matter is, beautiful women get approached all the time and asked for dates by some of the most deranged and desperate guys on the face of the planet. Even women that you don’t think of as particularly attractive get their share of attention due to the nature of the male.
Most guys have NO idea how to talk to a woman, and as a result women are defensive when being approached. If you want to succeed, you must make yourself appear distinctive from the average guy as soon as possible.
You do this by avoiding common mistakes that most men make and common lines that most men use. Don’t start off by complimenting her looks; every guy does that. Don’t start off by asking her if she has a boyfriend. Women want magic and mystery. If you want to be that special guy that all the girls talk about amongst each other while they’re in private, then you must set yourself apart from the hundreds of lame men that approach them all the time.
I’ll elaborate more on this at the end of the article. Let’s take a look at the most important step.
Step 3: Just do it! Need a little inspiration? How about this. I once took one of the ugliest, shortest, and most poor friends I had. This guy had only been on one date in his life – back in high school with his mom acting as chauffer. He had never even kissed a girl!
He stumbled at first, but with my advice and after giving him a few examples of openers he could use to approach women, he ended up approaching and successfully setting up a date with a beautiful woman at a mall in less than 10 minutes.
This friend then went on to date more beautiful woman, and guess what? After ‘playing the field’ for a while, that original striking blonde he approached became his long term girlfriend.
That friend proved to me that anyone can get as many dates as they want, as long as they take action. And more importantly, taking the right kind of action.
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