Perhaps you've heard the buzz about attracting women with body language. This is a topic that has begun to become more and more popular as of late. Ironically, body language has been the CORNERSTONE of attracting a woman since the caveman days.
In fact, there are even men to this date (and I've witnessed this in person) who seem to know how to attract women with their body language ALONE. They call it "cavemaning." And it works. Crazy, huh?
But you don't have to go to the extreme of not opening your mouth to attract women through body language. All you have to do is understand what sort of body language women are attracted to and you can add it to your "arsenal" and improve your success dramatically.
First off, you have to understand (or assume, for now) that the following is true: women are attracted to a confident, "larger than life" type man. The alpha male. If we "work backwards" with our logic, we can figure out what type of body language women are attracted to.
They're attracted to the body language and aura that these types of men tend to exude!
How would you carry yourself if you were the most successful guy you knew, AND you knew you were great in bed, AND you were the funny as all hell, AND you were tall dark and handsome, AND you knew that every woman was just dying to meet a guy JUST LIKE YOU?
You would be the most comfortable guy in the room. And that is the body language that will attract women.
But you know what the great news is? Attracting women with body language can be such a powerful strategy that you don't even have to actually BE all of those things we listed above! If you can learn to EMULATE the body language of a confident, successful, handsome man, then you can stir up the same emotions in a female!
The truth is that the reason that "loser" guys tend to not have success with women is that they tend to exhibit "loser" body language. Women are HARD WIRED to respond to body language signals more than anything else. In the caveman days, it was all they had to go on, and those instincts have remained consistent to this day.
I'm going to give you specific examples of how to use body language to attract women in different situations. This is all stuff I've tested and I USE. My girlfriends have all commented on my body language as something that stood out about me when they met me, so I know this stuff works.
Use it and you'll get results.
When You're Sitting Down:
When you're sitting down, your goal is to take up as much "space" as possible. As always, try and imagine how the most comfortable person in the room would sit. How would they hold their glass? How would James Bond do it?
Spread out, lean back (as opposed to forward, which is unattractive to women) and spread your legs. Take up space, even if you're a small guy!
This may sound like I'm nitpicking, but TRUST ME... in my private interviews with women, I've proven time and time again that the way you position yourself while sitting ALONE can make a woman wildly attracted to you.
When You're Walking:
Body language while walking is something that can't be faked as easily. Anyone can master the sitting body language, but here's the thing: if you make TOO much an effort to walk like an alpha male, you'll end up overthinking it and NOT being relaxed. Which is what you want to be.
Still, I should tell you the basics. Just don't overthink this. Walking like a confident man will manifest itself as your success with women increases.
Walk slowly. Think Clint Eastwood. Don't walk like you're in a hurry, that's for chumps.
Avoid looking around too much; it makes you seem nervous. Be dedicated and focused on getting where you're going. If you're approaching a woman to talk to her, do it slowly but with clear intention.
Take long, slow strides. Keep your back straight up, and your shoulders broad. Hold your head confidently (with your chin just SLIGHTLY raised).
When you're Interacting:
When you're interacting with a woman, remember to be comfortable!
No nervous laughter, or eye darting. Don't laugh too easily in general. If you can't hear her, ask her to repeat herself, but DON'T LEAN in to hear her! Have her be the one leaning in to talk to YOU! You're the alpha male! Remember that!
I could go on all day, but do you know what I've found?
The best way to master this stuff and start driving women wild with your body language is to actually MAKE IT, not FAKE IT! When you start to become more successful with women, you will NATURALLY mirror confident body language; you won't have to concentrate on it so hard!
I can help you get that sort of confidence.
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Books that I highly recommend:
Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo - Chances are that you've already heard of this one or bought it yourself. It's becoming quite popular. If you haven't already read this, click the link and download it NOW.
Magic Bullets by Nick Savoy - Sort of a more "psychological" and "technical" approach to women and dating. This stuff can be clinical at times, but it WORKS like DYNAMITE. I can't see any guy having trouble with women if he uses this book as his Bible.
A little pricey at $68, but well worth the money.
Art of Approaching by Joseph Matthews - oThe Art of Approaching is a little bit different. Instead of going over the basics of seduction, it focuses solely on how to APPROACH beautiful women without fear of rejection. This one is really key if you want to build your confidence. Positive experience after positive experience with approaching women makes you feel like you're on top of the world.
I've given you the tools you need to succeed. Now there are no more secrets, and no more excuses. Whether you improve your success wtih women or not is up to you and the actions you take!
To YOUR Dating Success,
