Every man wants to know how to be more successful with women, and many men get the "great" idea that they can just cut out the middleman, and go straight to the source -- why not just ask a woman exactly what it takes to seduce other women?

This idea makes A LOT of sense on paper, and so it's no wonder that so many men seek out dating advice for men by women. Still, there are a few things that you need to be aware of that actually lead me to believe that you're actually better off asking men how to seduce women.

Women are programmed to lie to you. From an evolutionary standpoint, females have always been somewhat dependent on the acceptance of society as a whole to survive. While men were sometimes traditionally strong enough to "get by" with their own independent beliefs and viewpoints, women often have to "follow the crowd." Just look at how especially worried women are about their reputation -- they're often worried about being perceived as "slutty" when it comes to dating issues.

As part of a psychological self-defense mechanism, women actually lie to THEMSELVES about what they're interested in. There are a few exceptions, but by and large, most women are living on a cloud when it comes to dating advice. They say that all they want in a man is a nice, sensitive, caring boy with a sweet sense of humor, who's romantic and loving and has all of those good traditional values.

However, if you pay attention to the type of man that these same women actually go for, then you'll see why you should put much more value into what women DO than what they SAY. They really want to be attracted to the "nice" boy because he is who society approves of, but in actuality, we all know that women are often more attracted to a guy with a bit of a rougher attitude and edge.

Girls Don't Really WANT to Have to Tell You How to Seduce Them. While every woman on the planet dreams and fantasizes about meeting their own "prince charming" and being swept off of their feet, having to "teach" the man of their dreams to do or say the right things is not a part of that fantasy.

Look, women want things to "just happen." So why would a woman who has no interest in you hide their truths from you, then? I think it is because they view their fantasies as a sort of "sacred treasure", and will not reveal them. From my experience, even the most honest of women "hold back" a lot of information when it comes to giving advice to men.

In General, Neither Men or Women Have a Solid Understanding of Our Psychology. Let's face it -- us humans often "rationalize" our behavior. We act first, based off how we tend to feel, and then come up with REASONS for our behavior later.

Women are even bigger emotional rationalists than men are, and the average woman has a very poor understanding of the emotions that actually motivate her actions.

While women CAN master their own mind in a similar way to a man, the point that I want to make to you is that you should not assume that every woman is an "expert" based upon her gender alone.

So Why Do I Think That You Should Listen to Men Instead of Women When it Comes to Dating Advice? It's simple, really. Men who are out in the field, actually hitting on women, have a real motivation to figure out what makes women tick. Women don't have much of a vested interest in truly understanding thier own psychology. In fact, that would ruin much of the "fun" and "magic" that they crave so much.

A man is able ot have the kind of experience you need. What works for one man can work for another. Men can also share with you what they have found NOT to work. A woman, on the other hand, will often only parrot things that society has taught them, to make sure that they come off as giving "proper" advice.

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